tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1581436032352728193.post3010992014887465925..comments2024-03-25T03:06:09.432-04:00Comments on can I decide another day?: Weekend Review {7/18}Teh Meganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13715128040792877195noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1581436032352728193.post-35189351253301013882016-07-19T11:36:08.669-04:002016-07-19T11:36:08.669-04:00I seriously thought I was the only person who hate...I seriously thought I was the only person who hated only using part of the eggs! I always get so frustrated when they're like oh just throw the yokes away! Who does that?! That is such a waste and I cannot bring myself to waste eggs like that. Also you're not crazy I do this kind of crap all the time where I feel underappreciated and overworked but because I'm the stay at home person it's my job to take care of all of these things even though I'm doing 10 times the amount of work that he is it just isn't counted as "work". I don't consider it sexual manipulation when you just want to little bit of comfort. I hate to say it but 90% of guys expect you to take care of those things and then when you bring it up and they always say well you don't have to do them. They know full well we can't not do them!Kimmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00410492611956836803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1581436032352728193.post-1856092191027847942016-07-18T17:11:35.927-04:002016-07-18T17:11:35.927-04:00I hate when prices aren't the same as advertis...I hate when prices aren't the same as advertised online. It was nice of them to offer to give you the difference. Just annoying that your server didn't do that for you in the first place. I never heard of the pink sky thing. That is kind of fun! <br /><br />So like, I feel like I do way more housework than Chris. I feel this way because...I do. Sometimes I don't care and just do it...but then there are days that I get so irrationally pissed off and I think it is because I hold it in all the other times. I spent 35 minutes ironing his clothes this morning and when I walked through our closet a few hours later to get ready...I noticed one of the shirts balled up that he must have changed his mind on. Like WTF??? It took me 5 minutes to iron that bitch and you are just going to throw it in the closet and not hang it back up?!?! Oh I was fuming for a very long time about that!!! Its more that he didn't appreciate that I took time out of my time in the morning to iron that shirt than anything. Nadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06920454010509077779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1581436032352728193.post-20095307404834111682016-07-18T15:37:04.040-04:002016-07-18T15:37:04.040-04:00I'm sorry that you are feeling like you're...I'm sorry that you are feeling like you're crazy for feeling this way, I assure you that you're not. I agree with Kristen, you two should both take the Love Language quiz. I've never actually taken it with a guy, but I have taken it myself, & just reading the basic idea behind it it makes a lot of sense. I also think it's why I get upset with guys when they don't do things I feel they should just because I would do them. (Words of Affirmation & Quality Time are my top 2 at 11 & 10 BTW)<br /><br />Yay for an outdoor movie & kick ass restaurant though.Briannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15343989978472064388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1581436032352728193.post-27977913307776459702016-07-18T14:58:31.862-04:002016-07-18T14:58:31.862-04:00sooo what does sideloaded mean? the only books tha...sooo what does sideloaded mean? the only books that show up in my docs instead of books are netgalley books. it's annoying, but only those.<br />i hope the 4th weed eater is a charm!<br />that restaurant sounds amazing, and how cool that the owner was going to give you the money for the discrepancy. <br />have you heard of love languages or the book 5 love languages or whatever it's called? i have the book, haven't read it yet, but just taking the online test made a huge difference in our relationship. i mean, we were okay and everything, but we kept butting heads about the same things and not understand each other, not to mention we kept expecting things from each other like how we would react and that's just not logical. long story short, my love language or whatever you call it is quality time. KC's is words of appreciation or whatever it's called lol. so before that, he was always saying thanks for this or that, and i was like why can't he just sit with me for 5 minutes or give me a hug? also, i have the gift one too - KC was like yeah you love shopping and receiving things, and i'm like, no, i like the thought. you stop and get me a soda, or you get something random for you, it means you were thinking of me, and that makes me happy. but i was trying to love him the way i wanted to be love - god that sounds like a crock of shit, but seriously. i was trying to show him i was thinking of him or spend quality time, but what he wanted/needed was words of affirmation or appreciation, i seriously don't remember. i think it's actually affirmation. but anyway. as soon as i started making an effort to say thank you for doing what i deemed his job anyway, or telling him he looked good or asking about his workouts (he loves talking about that shit) and all that, i noticed a difference. <br />anyway, i know this is the longest comment ever, but i guess what i'm trying to say is that it sounds like you're not on the same page with things, and guys can be frustrating because they don't think of things the way we do. like i make KC lunch and breakfast most days, and i always cook dinner- and i feel like i deserve a pat on the back or the excuse to sit on my ass for the rest of the week. but he would do the same thing if i asked for more recognition 'i don't ask you to do those things'. you know? but i like doing them. KC and I view things differently, and i can't get mad at him for not seeing or looking at something the same way. am I even making sense or talking complete shit?<br />I guess what i'm saying is, if you haven't heard of this stuff, do the quiz and make him do it too, and just SEE how different you guys are and if there is a way you can start making an effort to 'love' each other differently.<br />if you do already know about this and i just rambled on for ages, please ignore ;)Kristen @ See You In A Porridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09592108031437491276noreply@blogger.com